Letter to the Abused

 Hello beautiful and handsome,

Unique and wonderful creature of our creator (God),To you that has being repeatedly or regularly mistreated (Abuse) in one way or the other, mentally,emotionally or sexually etc.

I know you must be feeling worthless,Overreacting,hating yourself and you feel like there is nothing you can do. You are thinking that you are the only one with a problem, and you have falling into the trap of believing that you are the problem, look, it will take a lot of will, consideration, reflection, analysation and acceptance to realise that you are not the problem.

Am sorry about your awful experience, but I think its time you put yourself together and stand on your feet again. My advice for you is this;

• Go back to the cross were love was poured out to all. Receive the love of Christ Jesus and believe that you are loved, cause indeed you are passionately loved by Him.

• Learn to forgive yourself and also your abuser sincerely. Seek to be healed  from within and embrace healing for your own peace of mind.

• Let go of the past, don’t dwell on it, its not a beautiful place to be. Decide to be happy. Happiness is always an option despite what you have experience. Happiness comes from within but is influenced from without. So do whatever it is you need to be happy.

• You must understand that you are not what happened to you. What happened to you is just an experience. So learn to separate your experiences from your Identity. You are who God says you are.

• Concentrate yourself, on who you are, your life and purpose. Look suicide is never an option. So stop processing those awful thoughts, betray your doubts and divorce your fears, take that someday step today to become who you are met to be, shake off every feeling of guilt (Jesus already died for you). Now, wake your heart to break apart every walls of your past that is keeping you from being you. Walk toward the and don’t stop until you start living your life. Your freedom to live above your past is the power of your decision to. 

you will be thankful for this one day “Right Now”. Its probably the most perfect time, so keep your head up as much as you can. Be gentle with yourself and keep your eyes on the end goal. You may be known as a victim of Abuse, but you donot need to be a victim. No matter what happens to you or taken from you, you have the potential to make of life what you will. And that cannot be taken from you. There is always something you can do, Be proud of yourself.

Thanks

 Yours sincerely

 Evepen.